Month: January 2018

  • Problems working with guilt

    When patients experience their unconscious rage in therapy, they often do not experience their love and guilt. Why? Also, how do you work on anxiety when it goes too high during guilt work? What defenses do you look out for and how do you work with them? Why doesn’t guilt and love come through? Thanks…

  • When do you need to integrate the personality first?

    Forming a relationship with another human being always triggers mixed feelings based upon our attachment history. As these mixed feelings rise, patients respond in one of five ways: they tolerate the rise of feelings, sharing with you, and becoming more intimate; they tolerate the rise of feelings, but start to unconsciously detach from the feelings;…